Are there any holidays more centered around food than Thanksgiving in America? Every holiday seems to have some sort of traditional food associated with it, but we all know Thanksgiving is all about the feast. Having a disease that is controlled solely by limiting the consumption of certain foods can make Thanksgiving pretty difficult to fully enjoy. It doesn’t help that a lot of traditional Thanksgiving dishes (stuffing, gravy, pie…) are made with wheat. There are a lot of really great recipes out there for gluten-free Thanksgiving dishes, but those only really solve the problem for gluten-intolerant folks if they are hosting the dinner or are somehow willing/able to cook the entire meal themselves. As a twenty-something with family in the area, I have so far only been a guest to Thanksgiving meals. In light of this, I think I am fairly qualified to offer some advice to those of us who are not cooking Thanksgiving dinner, but still would like to enjoy the holiday.
Try to lose the attachment to the food part of Thanksgiving. I don’t want to delve into a lot of boring thankfulness clichés, but there is more to Thanksgiving than just the food. Yes, people can go on and on about what they are most excited to eat, how they are fasting and exercising in anticipation of the meal, pinning or compiling recipes, and even making timelines (that start three weeks ahead of time!) to make sure all of that food gets cooked. That is a lot of frenzy. And it is easy to get caught up in it. But what about hanging out with the younger kids, if there are any, at your party? Or catching up with relatives? Maybe your group goes for a fall walk or plays football or makes some sort of craft? If you don’t, maybe this could be the year that you start a non food-centric tradition?
Bring something. I have made gluten-free pumpkin pie and brought it to a Thanksgiving before. This might be tacky, but I’ve also brought my own gluten-free gravy. I would check with your host first to make sure they are okay with it, but most likely they will be glad of it. Especially because they may already be feeling guilty about the lack of gluten-free options for you and others at their party. If money is an issue, vegetable sides are usually pretty cheap to make. Try to bring something that requires minimal additional preparation or can be covered while it is heating, because space in the kitchen will probably be limited, and also there will likely be lots of gluten flying around that you wouldn’t want to end up in your food.
If it’s appropriate, ask your host about what ingredients are in certain dishes. This one is a little touchy, because you don’t want your host to feel like you are guilt-tripping them for not feeding you. But if there is a quiet moment, ask them nicely if they would mind telling you the ingredients of a few things that you think have a good shot at being gluten-free. Remember though, that they are not running a dedicated kitchen and so will likely not be paying attention to cross-contamination from spoons, sieves, drips, or splashes.
And try to remember:
Thanksgiving is not the only day of the year for eating. The thing is, there is no sort of magical cooking force-field around this day that only allows certain foods to be prepared on it. If you are really, really sad about missing out on one of your favorite foods at Thanksgiving, you can make you own gluten-free version of it the next day.
Happy celebrating!




























